Let's face it: It's hard to be wildly romantic once you have kids. It's a question of simple math: only so many hours in the day, only two of you, only two hours left after their bedtime and before yours and only one reliable sitter (if you're lucky). When you think of it that way, it's amazing you manage to stay as lovey-dovey as you do. But it is possible to make your marriage as sweet and sexy as a Meg Ryan movie and to grow even closer during those peak parenthood years, says Cherie Carter-Scott, Ph.D., author of If Love Is a Game, These Are the Rules.