My heart is rising with one more thought and I want to put it forward to other active sitagita-ites: they could belong to both sexes.
If a husband & wife should live this relationship like an intimate friend, young lovers of each other for a happy cheerful life throwing away signs of ageing or the ones who boss each other which, in your opinion, will prove a lovable successful married life with zero ageing signs ?
Life with fun mauj masti and zero hatred is every individual ' s demand so why is ' nt the supply? The mantra for great marriages for ages is just one -be an intimate close friend to one another, lover of your spouse (this goes for both). Be a part of each others life, don't keep him/her away, see that nothing divides you and you remain one, not two!
Why do we want to suppress the other, in our relationships? why can't be free but plz that doesn't mean you hang around with other xyz. When one partner to other says be like this or that way this is always misunderstood as for taking away the identity but it's to improve it for the best. if u love one u can't see him/her be hurt by others for what is not right in your spouse.
If you love your darling wife/hubby can you hurt or let him be hurt? Or his/her heart broken by anyone ? what's the answer YES or NO? love ka matlab hai ki apne jivan saathi ko itna chahain ki ruhki hawayein bhi usse chuke na gujar ne payen. agar apne saathi ko dard hote dekh hum pur koi asar nahi hota ya uski takhleef se khud ka dil dard mehsoos nahi karta to woh pyar kaise ho sakta hai. Iska arth hai ki rishte mein abhi bhi bahut khali jagah hai jahan ehsaas ki kami rah gai hai. Pati patni aksar ek dusare ki khushiyon ko dabane (suppress) mein hi lage rahte hain . Samne wale ko kiss taraha kuchla jaye yahi judojahad (koshish) lagi rahti hai. Jiss tarah apne dost ya premi/premika (agar rahi ho ya na bhi ho) ke liye ji jaan se jaan chidak te nazar aate hain ki unki uff bhi nikli bus apni hatheli pur liye ghum rahe hain ussi tarah iss rishte mein kyon ye mumkin nahi. isse to zindagi bhar nibhana hai tab to aur love & care se nurture karna chahiye.
Is me galti kissi ek ki nahi hain. many a times this happens that if one is of this opinion the other will try to show I am of serious kind, be in your limits, this is a foolish idea to behave like this . how can one be so pooo-lite, kind, gentle polished to the other, this will be artificial, just like begging, the other will start to rule, arre jyada sir chad jayega, dimag satwein aasman mein udane lage ga, why is it so? all politeness, mannerism, sound behaviour, humanity is made for the outer world not meant for the world which comes in 1st PLACE then the rest. this is that world in which if u r happy, cheerful successful u r in best shape then, to face the entire outside this rule goes for both the genders.
Why do we make a hell of such a heavenly relationship ? we say friends is what we choose & r not imposed so is the best relation becoz is not born of same blood I say then why can't husband & wife not born of same blood who r said to spend births 2gether can't live happily thereafter? who share special bond ,cute gifts-- - - - their sweet children, all this is lifetime achivement still is filled with bitterness. why? be like a true friend , lover , U will see that the ship of ur relationship will always sail smoothly in sea of ur life .
Fill up ur life with the stuffing of melting emotions, heart & soulfull love,
Honey of honesty, Cream of smooth,polite,gentle behaviour,Sugared voice
always free of diabeties,Mix in ur sensous touch to soothe the nerves,
Top it with cute million dollar smile & cheeries of care.
Now it's ready to go on a trip for ----------------
LIVE - LONG - LOVE - LIFE .
Now it's the viewers turn to move their finger chips on keys and pour out their definition of termnology about marriage. many wud say how can it all goody-2 i say why can't it be . it's for those also who say positivity is key of life. look up to this rishta not as a mountain mammoth but as sweet as honey with nothing impossible. plz feel free to reply open hearted u will not be sentenced to punishment but be sure before u write for what u write.
