all of us wants others have to honor us , love us, treat us with respect, etc. but when we ask our selves how we enact first with others we will get the answer , it may be bitter but we have to admit that. many told us to be honest, sincere with others. do we do like that in all aspects? even if we practice to be like that, that results in to a chaos. i dont like to say that honesty and sincerity are waste things, but life of us depends upon how we use them up. life is nothing but the way we live. try to enjoy life as it comes . u think u can change it. but invain. even u think that you succeded in changing ur life, thats nothing but a mirage. the best man is he who do what he thinks best.